Bravery = 0

Right now, No one is perfect, would be the summary of my experiences that i've had recently..

As much as i can complain about someone, at the end of the day i realised, no one is perfect.. Our weaknesses may show, and it will never be tolerable, cos plainly, they are weaknesses..

They say as you grow older you become wiser, cos u've experienced more in life.. But i can never grasp the correct way to tell someone that he/she is wrong.. How do you do tat?? Seriously.. How do you tell a close one that he/she is wrong w/o having to face the music after telling them..

I quote from the previous post about the speech, " The truth has a great capacity to offend and injure, and you will find that the closer you are to someone, the more care you must take to disguise or even conceal the truth". Going through 22 years of my life, and this is one puzzle that i haven solved.. Even if the person were to tell me, hit me with the truth, i can take it, i know for sure, it will hurt the person deeply.. I'd like to think that i am right most of times as well, and i know how it feels to be proven wrong.. The feeling sucks, it's hurting, it's all you think about the next few days..

Tell me how then.. how??

It really doesnt help that i'm not a good communicator.. I'm not really someone who brightens up people day by saying the right things or have the ability to say things at the right time.. I want to come across as, hey, i think you're wrong, but i am not condemning you.. But most of the time, fail, becos my emotions get the better of me sometimes..

I like the previous post about the speech so much, maybe it's becos i totally agree with the points raised, or just maybe, it's becos i feel some people really need to read that speech..

I'm just not brave enough..