Relationship..
1. The condition or fact of being related
2. Connection by blood or marriage
3. A particular type of connection existing between people related to or having dealings with each other
4. A romantic or sexual involvement
And today i am gonna talk about relationship.. I know some of you out there wish that i would speak about point number 4., but i'm sorry to disappoint you, but im speaking about number 1.
The condition or fact of being related, in short, having a connection..
One of the most amazing words in the dictionary, the meaning is simple but yet it varies on different people. A relationship between couple A would most unlikely be similar to a relationship between couple B.
Just as how i do not like my girlfriend to be late, but to jian xiang, it doesnt bother him that much if his gf is late..
Each of us is unique in their own ways, habits, upbringing, preferences and etc.. No body is totally similar to each other, not even twins.. So when you look at the bigger picture, two unique and different people, coming together as one, it almost seems like a miracle..
When two people come together, they forsake their "baby" mindset.. As a baby, you learn that a square peg must fit through a square hole.. But when you grow up, you realise, thats not the same as relationships.. You cant say you found a 100% similar person as a partner.. But what makes relationships a miracle?
It is that despite not being similar, we compromise for them and we accept them for who they are.. You know they are wrong at times, but you'll still accept them..
I never quite agreed on why the church would strongly prevent youths from getting into one.. After all, life is a journey.. Relationships are part of the lessons in life, so why prevent people from learning..
So thats my intro for today.. HAHA!!
The reason why i spoke about this topic cos it just keeps appearing infront of me.. Like how Jx and Jess is different from Me n Yi Chun.. Like how Yanping wishes to have a Bf that is not Singaporean cos she believes that most Singaporean men are wishy washy and a miser.. And how Mildred totally agrees with her sumore..
So i had to talk about it.. Cos i wanna emphasize that not ALL Singaporean men are wishy washy and a miser.. If all you ever encounter are these kind of men, then there's only one word for you, SWUAY! haha.. And yes, our foreign counterparts are more open, more daring, more charismatic and may i add, more "HARDCORE" also.. haha.. But for all you know, their bad points could be worse than Singaporean men!
Okay.. anyway.. THat all happened at yst's "JX farewell party".. haha.. There were quite a few laughs on "insist" and "scrape".. SCRAPE!!! LOL!!! I gotta say, it was a good time yst.. Even aft that when me chit yong and hp slack downstairs.. It was all good..
Btw, i know the intro part was kinda lame, i anyhow type some rubbish one.. haha
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